Showing posts with label gumption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gumption. Show all posts

Sunday, October 18, 2015

one more time. carol burnett. (315)


i decided to read one more time after reading about carol burnett's life in gumption.  offerman discussed burnett growing up poor and on welfare, something that surprised me.  the bibliography mentioned her memoir and so i put in a request.

as i may have discussed earlier, i spent one summer, home on vacation, watching the carol burnett show.  my grandma said she used to love it and so i started to watch reruns and of course fell in love.  i didn't become a fanatic but did spend that summer loving her show.  my grandma also shared how she would give her ear a tug to say hello to her family.  

with how successful burnett is, i was surprised to learn about her childhood on welfare.  i would have never thought of her as having such humble beginnings but burnett is a true example of the american dream.

burnett's home life growing up reminded me of my own.  we both had absent fathers though hers was an alcoholic, and we were both very close to our grandmothers.  her being her grandma's shadow reminded me of my grandma bea.  i wasn't as clingy as burnett, but i also did everything with my grandma and had anxiety over the idea that she would die when i was little (both of our grandmothers lived into our adulthood).  

burnett was under the care of her grandmother because her mother had moved out to hollywood.  her mother was in and out of work and later on in carol's life suffered from alcoholism as well.  due to her parents lack of employment and disease, her grandma and she were on welfare. though poor, burnett's childhood was exciting.  she and her grandmother moved out to hollywood.  it was interesting to read about her live in hollywood and picturing the streets and corners she talked about.    it was fun to read about her growing up and being a teen in hollywood. 

this memoir covered burnett's life up to her big break into the entertainment industry, but it's was sprinkled with stories from her recent life. sharing how people from her past reappeared.  i like the story of her giving a grandmother and her granddaughter $50 to take a cab after she saw them waiting for a bus and was reminded of waiting with her grandma and how much she hated the bus.  i also liked when one of the popular girls from high school came to carol's table at dinner to say she was a fan and didn't remember carol from high school.

the other tales that stand out where how she was truly lucky when it came to her success.  for example, she had applied to UCLA but could not afford the tuition. however, on the day her fees were due, $50 showed up in her mailbox, with her name on it, but no return address.  thanks to this surprise, she went to UCLA.  also, i had no idea she was a fellow bruin!

another great story was her benefactor. after performing in honor of one of her mentors, she spoke with a man about her future plans.  she explained that she needed to be in new york to make it big, and he asked what was stopping her and she explained money.  he then set up a meeting with her later in the week.  at the meeting, he loaned her $1000 to be paid back in 5 years.  with she moved to new york, struggled a bit, but as we know made it!  her benefactor never was named, but as we learned in a story, was very proud of her success.

it may seem like luck, but burnett wouldn't be as successful if she wasn't such a hard worker.  she was determined to make it and took chances and due to it became the wonderful comedienne genius that she is!  

this memoir was a delight and i look forward to reading her other one.  i have to add this memoir reminded me of the importance of persevering our own stories.  this memoir was written for her kids to know her life story, which is something everyone should do.  

Thursday, October 15, 2015

days that i'll remember: spending time with john lennon and yoko ono. jonathan cott. (314)


i picked up jonathan cott's days that i'll remember: spending time with john lennon and yoko ono, after reading nick offerman's yoko ono profile in his work, gumption.  cott's work was listed as a reference and as a further reading on more about yoko, so i decided to check it out.

as i mentioned in the gumption post that i adore yoko ono.  yes, i did hate her for a while due to rumors that she broke up the beatles, and once i discovered her art, my opinion changed.  i'm not sure when i first learned of her art, but remember being amazed by the performance piece, in which she allowed members of the audience to cut away her dress.  if you know me, i am all about participation in art and this piece, i found profound because its interesting to see how people cut, whether they were timid or aggressive, if they cut away a lot or a little.  if her art was this cool, no wonder john fell for her.  the first interaction i ever had with her art was wish tress in pasadena.  i always said when i finally have a home of my own, i will set up a wish tree for my guest to leave wishes on.

back to the work.  i will start by saying that had times, i didn't want to know about what was going on with cott, but what was going on with john and yoko, but then i realized that if i knew them, i course i would write about myself.  and of course, it is about his time hanging out with them, so i shouldn't be so judgmental.  cott also interviewed lennon three days before his death and that is interview is in here as well.  cott explained how after lennon's death, he couldn't bear to listen to the tapes so hit them away. however, when rolling stone was doing an anniversary issue, he looked for the tapes to share.

the reason i picked up this book was to learn about yoko, but of course, john was the primary focus in this case, which is understandable.  he's john lennon.  however, to be completely honest, i didn't enjoy his interviews, because at times he came off as pompous.  but it isn't his fault, we search for answers to life from our celebrities when really they are just people.  i mean he spoke truth when it came to peace and love and life, but other times i was like really john?  what are you talking about?  but i guess the same thing goes on with kanye west for me today.  i love his music, but he doesn't always articulate himself that well, i think the same was for john lennon.  he is only human and not everything he said needed to be certain.  there was one thing that lennon shared that i found very profound.  he shared how there are only two people he has chosen to collaborate with and that paul mccartney and yoko ono.  he brought paul to the quarrymen, paul brought geroge, and george brought ringo, but it was only paul that john initially sought.  that is some food for thought.

and one last thing about the beatles, as john shared, if you listen to the white album, they are no longer the beatles, but in fact, four individuals artist with a back up band.  and this is the reason for the break up.  it was not due to yoko.  there was a story shared about how ringo felt excluded, but when he went to the other beatles, they expressed the same feeling.  this story also went on to share how octopus's garden came to be, when having squid, the captain of a boat shared with ringo about how octopi would take shiny rocks and put them in front of their caves like a garden! cute story huh, though ringo did share how a couple of tokes helped him out as well.

but back to yoko.  i really read this to learn about her.  first off, i have to share with a strong spirit, she had.  when she and john got together, she was had to deal with a very harsh backlash by everyone, her looks, and race were criticized.  for her to have endure that demonstrates what a strong spirit she has.  not to mention the fact that the love her life was murdered and she still continues on and shares his message of peace and love.

though i had read about it in offerman's work, it was nice to read about how they met at an exhibit of yoko's art.  i loved how either one hadn't heard of each other, yet it was great to see how john got yoko's art.  for example, john wanted to hammer a nail in the piece painting to hammer a nail and since the show wasn't open yet, yoko said no.  the art dealer told her to let him because he was a billionaire and could buy the piece.  yoko then offer to sell him an imaginary hammer and nail.  john found that clever!  this section then went on to describe other works by yoko ono, which i had the privilege of seeing at the moma at her recent show.  though sadly i didn't get to touch any of the pieces.  

though i am a big fan of yoko and john as a couple, i will say i was a little upset about their cheating on their spouses.  both were married, the first time they had sex.  granted then ended up divorcing, it was kind of disappointing to see that their love came with infidelity.  (i know i'm so old fashioned!)

(quick john story, i really dug his piece for "you are here".  he tagged balloons and set them free.  the balloons were tagged, so that they would be mailed back to him.  it was inspired by a time he found a tag balloon from australia.)

i thoroughly enjoyed reading about her avant-garde pieces for example whisper piece, which was like a game of telephone in which every member of the audience participated and the last person went on stage just for yoko to say, "don't tell me".  my favorite was her first public solo concert that took place at carneigie rectial hall and it all had to do with silence and darkness.  it focused on what we think we hear when it's quiet and what we see when it's dark.  she did things like put live crickets around the theater.  she had a person stand in the bathroom, to give off that fright of someone else being in the room. i found it very clever and interesting.  i also loved that she shared about her bag piece because i participated in that when i went to the moma.   it was really great to read about her art.  it was also interesting to read about how influenced she is by the sky, especially since the new piece she had for the moma, was a single stairway up to the top of ceiling of the moma, where it was window and you could see the sky.  her art is amazing.  

it was also interested to learn about her background.  she is the descendant of an emperor.  she does have a very privileged background, but also suffered due to the bombings of world war II.  i enjoyed reading about her first memory which was a recurring dream she had.  she was in a cave when a tiger appeared and roared, and then she went through a tunnel and was in a hospital room.  she believes it to be a memory of her birth.  really, how cool is she?!?

i really enjoyed this book because i was able to learn more about yoko ono.  hopefully, she will write a memoir.  i have to check to see if there are biographies on her.  i really would love to learn more about yoko the artist then yoko, john lennon's wife.

Sunday, September 6, 2015

gumption: relighting the torch of freedom with america's gutsiest troublemakers. nick offerman (308)


i learned of nick offerman's gumption:  relighting the torch of freedom with america's gutsiest troublemakers at bookcon.  i knew he had written another book but assumed it was autobiographical but discovered at his panel it was about americans he admired for their gumption.  i have to add that he brought out both john hodgman and paul rudd during his panel, and yes, rudd was a huge distraction for me.

to be completely honest, this work did not live up to my expectation.  i had expected profiles of some great americans, but what i really got was some interesting facts, offerman gushing about why he loved them, and then some random discussion on politics, life, social media, etc.  i mean the points he made were interesting, but after a while it just got too redundant.  although i love ron swanson, i don't feel that close to offerman, as say, amy poehler or aziz ansari, so all of his random jokes where more awkward than funny. or maybe i am being mean, i just didn't literally laugh out loud as i read, though i am sure there was an the expectation that i did.

that being said, i learned a lot, just wish i had learned more and plan on doing some further reading with the books he suggested for further reading. 

my absolute favorite profile was yoko ono, perhaps because she was the person that i was the most familiar. i loved how offerman started off with admitting how he was judgmental about her, believing in the music folklore that she had broke up the beatles, but thanks to his wife, megan mullally, he saw the light.  and can i just add way to go mullally for purchasing some yoko art, i would have purchased a piece if i could afford it.  anyway, it was lovely to read about how she and john met through her art.  something that i didn't know, but i recognized the pieces because i attended her one woman show at the moma this past may.  i knew of the apple that john was intrigued by and was frustrated when i couldn't climb the ladder to read the message on the ceiling like john did.  but yes, it is amazing that her message was one of positivity and not negativity.  i should add that the book closes with a photo of this piece.  i like offerman found it amazing how she still lived in the dakota.  i am also amazed by her continued activism for social progress.  i really want a poster that says "war on women is over (if you want it)" or maybe a shirt.  but yes i loved the chapter on yoko ono and will be doing some further reading on her.

i also plan on reading more about eleanor roosevelt.  i had no idea that she and franklin d. were distant cousins.  i also loved reading about how she stuck to her beliefs regardless of what her husband supported.  eleanor lobbied for a bill that made lynching illegal in the south, even though her husband was worried that he would lose southern support.  she was also against imprisoning the japanese americans in internment camps after pearl harbor.  again i would have loved to read more about her, but am glad that offerman pointed me in the right direction to read more about her.

maybe it's the feminist in me, but i also plan on reading more about carol burnett.  i used to watch reruns of the carol burnett show, as a kid.  my grandma turned me on to her.  i remember laughing though i don't remember any specific jokes.  i would really love to revisit her show.  it was extraordinary to learn of her humble beginnings and to see that she is a fellow bruin!

the other woman that sparked an interest in me and one that i had never heard of was laurie anderson.  her music and art sounds amazing.  also i loved that she ordered a grilled cheese and bourbon when she and offerman met up.  i did like her idea about reverse boot camp, i feel like we do need to help our servicemen and woman return back to civilian life.  i didn't put in a request for her work, but will later on down the road.

i loved the conan o'brien chapter.  who knew he was so intelligent? and i have to admit it made him really sexy.  it was great to read his thoughts especially about how we view these times, i agree that we romanticize the past and the world is really not as bad as we think it is.  also conan knows his stuff, i mean he is a harvard grad and a history major.  i mean i would love to read books about history from him or even just a book about his life.  why hasn't that happen yet?  also since sadly there are no books, about conan, his further reading section, included books that he mentioned in his chapter.  i think i will read his books just for fun!

i enjoyed reading about james madison, we really do owe a lot to him.  i had no idea how crucial he was to the creating of the constitution and the bill of rights.  also, love that he was a big reader.  (actually alot of people featured were big readers.)

speaking of big readers, the stories in theodore roosevelt's chapter was awesome.  i mean he got shot during a speech and continued on with his speech! talk about impressive!

the chapter on frederick law olmsted was really interested.  thanks to my friend ivan, i have learning about new york, and how it came to be, so loved learning about olmsted and the designing of central park.  it was great to know that olmsted wanted the park to be one everyone and not just the rich.  i also learned that the entrances are labeled different, next time i am in nyc, i'm looking for the strangers' entrance and the warriors' entrance.  another central park bucket list item for me is to eat at tavern on the green.  i also plan on going to prospect park, which is supposed to be he and his partner, valux's best work.  i have been to the brooklyn museum but never explored the park.

i did enjoy micheal pollen's chapter, i would like to read his work, the omnivore's dilemma but am worried they may change my diet.  but i love my food! i will check out the rest of his works, i just don't read much non-fiction, but will add him to my to-be read list.

i sadly wasn't familiar with the writers mentioned, though i did recall coming across george saunder's congratulations by the way on california bookstore day, but didn't buy it.  however, i think i will given it read.

last but not least, i enjoyed read about george nakashima, a furniture maker.  his story was incredible because he was in an internment camp during world war II, after which, he started marking furniture and became successful.

the individuals that offerman wrote about were interested, again i would have liked to see more about them, versus offerman's opinion of them or thoughts he inspired by him.  if you like offerman, check it out, but just know that you there will much left to be desired, so hit up that further reading list.

further reading (for my personal reference):
 the autobiography of eleanor roosevelt eleanor roosvelt
days that i'll remmber: spending time with john lennon and yoko ono joanthan clott
all we are saying: the last major interview with john lennon and yoko ono david sheff
one more time carol burnett
this time together carol burnett
stories from the nerve bible:  a twenty-year retrospective laurie anderson
king lear shakespeare
the beatles:  the biography bob spitz
the soul of a tree george nakashima
congratulations, by the way geroge saunders
a clearing in the distance witold rybczynski
and michael pollan's works