Showing posts with label chang-rae lee. Show all posts
Showing posts with label chang-rae lee. Show all posts

Monday, March 10, 2014

native speaker. chang-rae lee. (177)


i picked up native son because gary shteyngart praised it i. his memoir, little failure.  chang-rae lee was shteyngart mentor and helped shteyngart get his book deal.  i also decided to check it out because lee's latest book, on such a full sea, has been receiving a lot of press and good reviews.  i figured i should read his first novel before reading his latest.

i must admit, i was a little bit weary at first.  there is no denying that lee is a great writer.  i read the book with such ease, yet the book covered very complex issues about culture, language, love, family.  the ease with which i read is a testament to lee's skillfulness as a writer.  it was deep without being too heavy.  this novel was well-written, but given it's emphasis on language and communication, it had to be.

what made weary was henry's occupation in the book; henry was a spy.  i understand henry's occupation was a device to help is examine his korean upbringing.  his culture provided him with the tools to be an ideal spy, but a spy story was not something i was expecting or could see myself invested in.  i did enjoy reading about henry's experience with dr. luzan because we were allowed an intimate view of henry.  however, i was not up for all of the double talk that came with his interactions with his co-workers and having to be suspicious of everyone.  furthermore, i was not interested in henry's assignment being politician, john kwang.  i am not one for politics, everyone involved is always corrupt, right?  in the end, i did become invested in this story line, i mean, there was a bombing, those korean clubs were you can rent women to be your companion (which i have been told of but never experienced), an affair and a drunk driving accident.  utilizing kwang as a mirror by which henry was able to reevaulate his father was interesting and allowed for henry and the reader a better understanding of henry's father and the korean culture.  it also allowed us to examine how immigrants struggle to maintain their culture while trying to manage in a new country.

what made this novel for me was the story of henry's marriage.  i think native speaker would have been a better novel if this story line was the main focus.  i think lee could have utilized lelia's upbringing and "americaness" more as a foil to henry's father, resulting in the downplay of kwang and that storyline.

the novel opened with a list of labels and descriptions created by lelia, about and for henry.  it was malicious but allowed for henry to reflect on how cold and distant a person he had became in his marriage.  from henry, we learn how they met and fell in love.  we also discovered the great tragedy they suffered which caused the distance between them.   their son mitt died in a freak accident, he suffocated being at the bottom of a dog pile of boys at his birthday party.  henry being the silent type does not seem to the suffer the same as lelia.  communication of their feelings is what lelia needed for comfort but due to his culture, henry was unable to provide her with that.  i must admit that i was sadden by the story he shared after mitt's death in which lelia created a little house out of sticks and rocks which he destroyed.  henry destroying the house seemed like a show he put on for lelia to prove he was suffering, as opposed to being able to have an open conversation with his wife.  thankfully, they were able to work through their communication problems and get back together.

before i go on i must say that i, like lelia, was disappointed by henry never knowing the woman that raised him.  i understand that both were acting in accordance with the standards set by korean culture but i can not imagine being raised by someone and not even knowing his/her name.  henry was not to blame in this situation because he went by the rules established in his home and by korean society.  also the woman did not want to be known.  this was demonstrated by the woman's resistance to lelia's attempts to get to know that her that she did not want to be none.  i, just like lelia (i am assuming this was cause for her reaction to the situation), imagined myself in her situation, to be alone in a strange country, not knowing the language or anyone, and having to raise someone's else child.  i don't know if i could survive it, but then again i do not have the same sense of duty that she did.

native speaker is an excellent account of the experience of second generation immigrants in america.  though i am fourth generation on my mother's side, lee's work allowed me a look into a different aspect of the american experience.   i was able to see the alienation of being second generation, not wanting to live according to the culture of your parents in attempt to become "american" yet not being full accepted by american society.  as edward james olmos' character "abraham" in "selena" (so maybe it was actually selena's dad) summed up this paradox best with his line "we have to be more mexican than the mexicans and more american than the americans, all that the same time!  it's exhausting!"  i am sure lee would agree with his sentiment since we saw henry struggle with this problem.  for example, henry explained how he was placed in a class to help him learn english as a child yet as an adult he is embarrassed when he mispronounced korean words.  being an immigrant to america is a challenge due to this but being second generation is even more challenging because you of the duality that comes with it, you have to be able to both your ethnic identity and american.  i guess in that sense using the hyphenation as idenfication ie korean-american, really is the best label because individuals truly are both.

another issue that is brought up within this book is multiculturalism.  race relations was a major issue for kwang's political agenda.  in the novel, korean stores are the center of the race issue, korean owners and black customers not getting along, peruvian and latino employees wanting better working conditions, jewish customers feeling entitled.  with so much diversity, how can a city like new york every be an all encompassing community especially since each ethnic group has their own set of demands for the city.  furthermore, each group blamed the other for the issues that existed.  the hate crimes in the novel (though lee never employed this term) demonstrated that perhaps the best solution was for each ethnic group to remain their own separate community.  in the end, it is demonstrated that celebrating cultural diversity is a means to a better future.  henry started to help lelia with her work as a speech therapist, she taught english as second language classes.  in these classes, henry recognized the beauty of diversity by observing the students.  he saw that by celebrating our difference instead of ignoring them, there could be peace and better race relations.

 native speaker is important novel in terms of sharing the experience of second generation immigrants, i just wish that a spy story was utilized to share it.  a good book and i look forward to reading on such a full sea.

Monday, February 24, 2014

little failure. gary schteyngart. (171)


when i read the flavorpill post recommending little failure as a must read for january, i hadn't read anything by gary shteynart, (i still haven't read anything by him other than this, my plan to read super sad true love story prior to this was spoiled because this book was due last tuesday.  yup, it cost me about $3.50 to read this book!) but with that cute cover and clever title, i decided to check it out.

even with my lack of familiarity with shteyngart's works, i was still able to enjoy his memoir.  plus it still revealed to me the not so shocking truth that shteyngart's fiction is primarily made up of his life (like all authors). since i have read a couple chapters of super sad true love story, i have to admit i did become confused between what i had read about lenny's parents and shteyngart's actual parents, which make sense because they are one and the same.  it was interesting to see that eunice was based on the korean school girls of his youth, prior to learning this i found her an odd character.  and now with this new background knowledge, i do look forward to reading the rest of shteynart's work, knowing who some of the characters are based on. 

the book was entertaining, it might be as flavorpill claimed, the best memoir i read this year but mostly because i might not read any other memoirs this year.  shteyngart is a great storyteller, very funny and witty.  for those of you that are unfamiliar with his background, shteynart is russian and jewish and immigrated to america with his family at a young age.  his memoir shares: his family history, his memories of russia, his education (from jewish grade school to a prestigious math and science academy to oberlin college), his works, how he became an writer and a family trip back to russia.  i enjoyed the stories of his youth more than i did his tales from college and breaking into the literary world.  i have to admit that he truly was horrible during his return to saturn phrase (but than again who isn't) but i can not believe how one-sided his relationship with his best friend john was, i mean to be honest, i guess i can because i have been the gary in friendships, but imagine my contributions being worth more than my demands.

but back to his childhood, i loved the story of his grandma galya motivating him to write a novel as a child, giving him a piece of cheese for every page written.  i also loved his teacher ms. s who had him read his novel to his class.  it was adorable how excited his class about his novel.  also the subject matter, sci-fi story on one level but a discussion of race relations on another, was quite advance for a child.  also it was interesting to see how his stories as an adult are not that different from his stories as a child.

i also enjoyed seeing the world filtered through his russian immigrant mindset especially pop culture.  for example wondering about "the origins of the white slave alice" on the brady bunch or "is it really possible that a country as powerful as the united states would not be able to locate two of its best citizens lost at sea" in gilligan's island.  the book is filled with gems like this not only of pop culture but american life in general.

and maybe it's because i miss my grandma so much, but i loved reading about his grandmas.  my grandma bea always encouraged me to write and draw pictures like his grandma galya.  my grandma was just like his grandma polya provided my sister and i with the best desserts and snacks.  however, her providing must have came with limits for her.  but two amazing grandmas that reminded me of my one exceptional one!

i also enjoyed reading about his family's trip back home to russia.  his father opening up to him about his time in a psychiatric ward.  in that light, i read his father's comment about his wish that shteyngart was gay instead of seeing a psychoanalyst, as him worried that his son would be mistreated as he was in russia.  also partially because his father must have partly blamed his genetics for his son needing help.  it was crazy to hear how cruel his parents were to him but it was a tough love, something they did to help him survive.  also anger was an expression of love from his parents which shteyngart learned to deal with thanks to his psychoanalysis.

oh and one last thing, that story about his ex that stabbed her ex with a hammer!! that was insane!

all in all, it was an enjoyable read. i wouldn't call it a must read but it's good book to check out, if you like his work.  it has inspired to read the all of shteygnart.  it also inspired me to read nils and the wild geese and the boy from ufo, two books he loved as a child.  i also look forward to reading chang-rae lee's book, native speaker, because he aided shteyngart in getting his book deal (also because his new book has been mentioned everywhere.) and last but not least i have been inspired to one day visit the chesme church, which was a focal point of this memoir and thus shteyngart's life.  it's a truly lovely building: