confetti girl. diana lopez. (227)

confetti girl caught my eye while subbing in a fourth grade class.  i thought to myself, this is my life and so i instagramed it.  i also decided to check it out from the library.

confetti girl was seriously my life.  well at least the cover and the first three pages.  so as an introduction to the novel, there are instructions on how to make cascarones . . . or confetti eggs!!!!!!  seriously my life.  i discovered confetti eggs via my cousin tina, who had them one easter and her house.  one year i took the extras to coachella and they were life changing!!  and they totally became our thing.  after that every year, i made confetti eggs and decorated them based on the bands that were playing:

they improved over the years but i will say that i am pretty legit!  so was super excited to see cascarones mentioned in this book.  (random sidenote:  my friend once saw cascarones at olvera street in la and was shocked because he thought it was just something i did, not a mexican thing. lol). oh i should add, lina and her friends are mexican.  they live in corpus christi and yes, the selena convention center is totally named-dropped!

the next thing was the dicho, or mexican saying, listed for chapter one.  all the chapters have dichos and they are all compiled in a list at the end, but the one that started of the book was "los amigos mejores son libros" or "books are your best friend"!!! which i totally believe! though lina, the main characger, wasn't a bookworm, her father was and also an english teacher.  books that were named-dropped included watership down (which i need to read) and one hundred years of solitude!!! 

the other dichos i enjoyed were:

buñolero, ¡haz tus buñelos!

(buñelos maker, make your own buñelos, or mind your own business).

*i could like this one partially because buñelos are delish!

las mentiras no tienen pies

(lies don't have get so they can't travel on their own.)

el camarón que se duerme se lo lleva la corriente 

(the shrimp that goes to sleep gets carried away by the current.)

hasta el diablo una vex fue ángel

(even the devil was once an angel)

great words of advice and mini life lessons for lina and the reader!

and last but not least, lina had a sock collection!  just like me!!!!  i know seriously my life.  but the parallels stop there. 

confetti girl is the story of lina, short for apolonia, a girl in middle school.  she lives with her father and had recently lost her mother to an illness.  this lost along with being a preteen resulted in some drama in her life.

lina's trouble started when her english grade began to drop.  bitter toward her father's pressure to love books, lina failed english and was unable to play sports.  i thought this was good lesson for kids.   the teacher did not make an exception for her and she had to suffer the consequences of letting her grades slip.  

on top of that her best friend, vanessa, got a new boyfriend and began to neglect lina.  though lina had a crush that later became her boyfriend, but they had issues too.  lina was then constantly fighting with her best friend and boyfriend.  there was also a boy that teased lina and i thought it would be revealed that he liked her, but didn't happen.

in the end, thanks to the help of the school therapist, lina discovered what she needed to do to get life back on track.  lina had been making up summaries for watership down because she was not reading it.  howrver,  the summaries were her life told via the characters.  the school therapist saw this as a means for lina to work through all of her problems. the therapist had lina finish her story which then became the basis for her talking to her dad about her problems.  in the end, everything gets resolved and ends in a huge confetti fight!

a cute read and great for preteen girls. and also because ever girl should know how to make confetti eggs!!!

are you there god? it's me, margaret. judy blume.

thanks to a flavorpill post, i learned that june 17 is blumesday, a day to honor author judy blume.  it's a play on june 16 which is bloomsday, a day to celebrate author james joyce; his work "ulysses" is set on june 16, 1904.  

since i loved reading judy blume books as a preteen (we didn't have the term "tween" back than), i decided to read "are you there god? it's me, margaret" to celebrate blumesday.  (and the copy in the photo is my original copy that i read when i was a preteen!)

as hopefully you all know from your own reading, "are you there god? it's me, margaret" is about a girl in sixth grade, margaret, and her journey through the tougher parts of being a girl: shopping for a first bra, waiting to get a period because everyone else already has theirs, discovering how catty girlfriends can be, and realizing the cute guy in class is not necessarily the best guy.  though, margaret has one other issue which is where the title comes from, a lack of religious identity.  margaret's father is jewish and his mother is catholic since their parents did not approve of their marriage, they decided to raise margaret without a religion and let her chose when she is older.  regardless of the absence of religion growing up, margaret still turns to god to help cope with the stress of growing up.

i think i read this book when i was in sixth grade, which would be prefect because it was the same age as margaret.  i believe it was sixth because i didn't have my period yet (i started in 7th).  as a result, i had to asked my mom and aunt about the whole sanitary napkin belt that maraget discussed.  they told me about the belts they had to use but thankfully i didn't have to worry about all that because my sanitary napkins would come (and still do) with adhesive so they would stick to my undies.   i mean tampon commercials demonstrate all the things you can do thanks to tampons, imagine all the things you couldn't do thanks to that belt.

and i am glad i read this book pre-period because sixth grader me needed the life lessons blume gave in this book.  blume gives such a honest portrayal of growing up that this should be required preteen girl reading.  i must admit that i when i read this book as a preteen, i dwelled on the parts about making your boobs grow (my breast came in high school, i can admit that i did "i must, i must, i must, increase my bust" a handful of times) and periods but i got that the girls were being catty for no reason and that the hot boy was a jerk, but i didn't take those stories to heart like i should have.  but i mean i was still young, life would see to it that i learned those lessons.  and in retrospect, it's sad because as a preteen you learn these lessons, but people don't really change.  at thirty, i still see women being catty and in all my years of existence, i have only met one hot guy who was actually nice.  i take back my earlier statement about this being required preteen girl reading, it should be required female reading!

a big portion of the book that went over my head was the religious part.  i got why  margaret didn't have a religon but i didn't really get it.  for one thing, judaism was an abstract idea for me then, i didn't met a jewish person until i was in college. i knew catholics so knew how their church went but didn't really get all of the parts about margaret's temple experience.  i did understand the importance of marrying within one's religion, but have never felt the pressure to do so. my family members have married all religons and ethnicities so i never felt the need to marry a specific kind of person.  for example, my grandfather was chinese-arabian and a muslim (he was really strict about the pork eating) and my grandmother is mexian-filipino who was raised catholic but converted to mormonism.  our family is one big melting pot (which i love) so if i married a jew or a catholic, no one would have an issue.  as a result, i probably was able to understand what was going on in but didn't really identify with margaret.

as an adult, looking back i that blume presents important points about spirituality versus organized religions for preteens.  even though margaret does not have a religion, she still has a relationship with god.  this provides two importance lessons.  first that ones relationship with god can and should  be personal and defined by onself.  growing up mormon, i believed that there was only one correct way (as instructed by the church) to worship god but as i grew up i realized that what is important is one's faith in god versus the rituals of organized religion).  the second lesson is one of tolerance, every time margaret goes to experience a new religion she speaks to god as a being that watches over all things and not restricted to one religion.  margaret is right in addressing the same god each time because essentially the jewish, catholic and christian god are the same god.  this is an important point to make so kids will not be prejudices against others due to their religion because at the heart of it all, judeo-christian faiths believe in the same god.

i am glad that i reread "are you there god? it's me, margaret" because it reminded me of what a wonderful author judy blume is.  i will have to reread some of her other books i read as a kid.